Reflex-tions!

Principally, defining some characters and predicaments seem to come from the command of actions and effects of that which was, which is, or which will happen; past, present and future respectively.
Humans are known to be very complex structures and thus, some of them decide to institute configurations in their lives owing to the fact that it was due to a direct consequence or trying to either change or alter a thing.

Either ways you see it, emotions come into play a lot in beings because long time ago, the creator made it so. The issue of communications, socials, morals and psyches are wrapped all around beings like a spherical ornament which either serenades, tranquilizes or dooms an individual.

Like the old saying, ‘Charity begins at home’… it’s a true definition for a personality because here, the principal here is the morals at play. The first aspects of informal education are directly administered to the child as he grows up spontaneously adapting to the environment. The institution of the family is a very huge one, it is the smallest social unit in the world, starts with two people of different sexes who have come together to carry out the activities of reproduction, multiplication, regeneration etc. The direct and complete sequence of a family being given birth to goes like this – Relationship–Courtship–Marriage–Family.

In the society today, I find some families in turmoil and disarray and also in the same vain, some relationships do not even last up to three months, owing to the fact that its always one of the beings involved; either the male or the female is the cause of the break-up, sometimes, in relationships too, families and friends and even self help pull down some successful relationships BUT, presently the issues of sex, finance, infidelity runs the ship now because those are the essentials ingredients that inspire the breakdown of relationships. Funny enough, in the olden days, all these were not in play because as at that time, the definition was very distinct and less pronounced unlike now that we are in a more developed era with a wide range of technological advancements.

I believe that the key to any relationship is TRUST and for it to be a lasting one, the two parties, excluding a third party should come together in agreement of what is needed-the Do’s and Don’t's. Also, there should be lines that should or not be crossed and there are some boundaries that should be reached.

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